A place for the host to sit too
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A host needs a usable place at the table. Check it with the same care as the guests’ seats rather than leaving a narrow gap nearest the kitchen.
Put your own plate and glass in position, sit down and notice what you can reach. Arrange serving tasks so you can join the meal when practical. Accept help that is actually useful, and let a small decorative detail go if maintaining it keeps you away from the people you invited.
White dishes and soft aubergine napkins can remain simple. The table does not need to be constantly corrected as people use it. A comfortable place for the host helps the gathering become a shared meal, with the person who prepared it present for more than the arrival and the clearing.